You Are Precious In My Eyes

Dear Parents,

Good eye contact is a key to attachment.  Here are some gentle ways to see eye to eye.

  • Look through a glass of water at each other.
  • Play that age old “Don’t Blink” game.
  • Stand behind your child while looking into the bathroom mirror.
  • Make funny, silly (not scary mean) faces at each other.
  • Take your child out into the garden to stare down a caterpillar together.
  • Paint each other’s faces.
  • Smile into your child’s eyes.

Make some fun eye stuff up for yourself.

The Attach Place

The Attach Place
Center for Strengthening Relationships

Just one no-no.  Try very hard to never say in anger, “Look at me, look at my eyes!”  From the very beginning in your home, your child has been learning to trust you.  Look at your child with eyes soft like a mother or father’s toward a new born child.  Angry, cold eyes hurt the soul.

Love Matters,

Ce

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