Are You Secretly Afraid Your Child…Is Going To Go To Jail Later In Life?

Dear Parents: Are you secretly afraid your child is jail material in the making?  When my children were growing up, my fears were not that secret.  As a matter of fact, here is a litany of things parents say: You will go to jail for that kind of thing when you get older.             You…

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Therapeutic Parenting Hacks #9 and #10 Loving Kindness Meditation and Practice

Dear Parents: Finally, the last two one-minute Therapeutic Parenting Hacks are done and ready for “doing” viewing. If you haven’t seen all the videos, you are welcome to watch them at your leisure on my youtube channel.  If you are ready for the pee-assed-de-resistance (yep, I really did spell it that way because I don’t know French but Mamma Google said…

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NEW Webinar! Introducing A 6-week Interactive Therapeutic Parenting Webinar by Ce Eshelman

Dear Parents: You might like a booster to the previous Therapeutic Parenting Training you had at The Attach Place, or you may need a different format in order to make it happen at all; then again, you might have friends you think could benefit from a Therapeutic Parenting Training but they live outside Sacramento.  Whatever the need, here is a chance…

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Wonder Woman Bracelets

Dear Parents: Yesterday, I was in a Theraplay session with a mother and her pre-teen daughter.  They were drawing on each other, as directed by their therapist–hehehe.  I love my job.  Anyway, the daughter drew these really cool designs on her mother’s forearms–wrist to elbow–that resembled Wonder Woman’s bracelets. Wonder Woman (And the Male Equivalent, Whomever That Is–Captain America Maybe?)…

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3 Ways to Tell If You Are Triggered By Your Kids

Dear Parents: All of us get dysregulated at times when we are engaging with our children.  If you don’t, then you are a unicorn.  There is annoyance and frustration with present events, and then there is reactive projection from unresolved past transgressions.  Relationship damage is caused when your reaction soars way beyond the seriousness of the infraction. Measured or Triggered…

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